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Be Gentle With Your Love

By being gentle with your desire to be loved

Bingz Huang
3 min readMar 21, 2023
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“You are loved. You have always been loved. There is no need to defend your stand or try to survive. For when you thrive on the plane of Love, everyone, including you, becomes a good old friend.” ~ Me from 2011.

These words came to me during one of the lowest points in my life in 2011 when I had just thrown my second career away as a physiotherapist-in-training. I felt utterly useless and ashamed for withdrawing from my sponsored training because I couldn’t handle the extreme stress of working in a hospital environment. But my soul thanked me for quitting and blessed me with the message above to focus on feeling loved and being loving.

My mind felt that the channeled message was completely impractical. Yet my heart felt that tangible love that emanated from this message.

I renamed this Love as Gentleness

This love kept me going as I became a mom to my three sons and struggled with my new identity and responsibility.

This love also inspired my first book, published eight years later in 2019 — Empower Your Life With Gentleness: A simple guide to feeling safe and free to be you. Even when I couldn’t shake off the belief that I was a complete failure for withdrawing from my sponsored…

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Bingz Huang
Bingz Huang

Written by Bingz Huang

Gentleness Coach & Certified MAP Practitioner. I can guide you to feel happy and fulfilled despite life challenges.

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