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Feeling Safe and Free to be Me
A Human Design perspective.
Re-reading my own book: “Empower your Life with Gentleness — A Simple Guide to Feeling Safe and Free to be You”, has helped me realize that in my journey of finding fulfilling and satisfying work through various careers, I was trying to heal my defined Identity Center in my own Human Design.
The Identity Center, this beautiful diamond in the center of the Human Design Body Graph, represents our sense of Identity, Love, and Direction.
Regardless of whether you are Defined or Open in this center, we are all here to feel safe and free to be who we are.
This is what my book’s subtitle says: A Simple Guide to Feeling Safe and Free to be You.
Defined Identity Center
If you are Defined in your Identity Center, like me, you have a fixed Identity that does not change regardless of where you are and who you are with. It is painful to be ignored, disliked or even hated by others by being who you are. And it can be painfully obvious because you do not have the capability to try to blend in. You just need to have the courage to find a place and…